HSV Dating Guide

Honest advice for dating with herpes

Disclosure Script Generator

Sixteen scripts, built from what people actually say and what actually lands. Pick your situation and get wording you can use tonight.

Nothing you select leaves your browser. There's no signup, no email field, and no analytics on your answers.

Build your script

Three questions. About thirty seconds.

1. Your situation
2. How you'll tell them
3. Relationship context

How to use what it gives you

Treat the output as a first draft in your own mouth, not a line to recite. Change the words that don't sound like you — the structure is what's doing the work, not the phrasing.

Three things matter more than wording: say it before any sexual contact, say it calmly, and stop talking once you've said it. Silence after disclosure feels unbearable and is almost always the other person thinking, not recoiling.

If you want the reasoning behind the structure, read the disclosure guide. If you want the numbers the scripts cite, they're sourced in transmission risk.